When it comes to weddings, there is no one-size-fits-all answer to the question of who should pay. Traditionally, the bride's family has been responsible for most of the costs, but modern couples are increasingly taking on the financial burden themselves. It's important to understand the traditional divisions of responsibility when it comes to wedding expenses, as well as the options available to couples and their families. The traditional approach states that the bride's family is responsible for covering all wedding transportation, hosting the wedding party, and paying for the wedding itself.
The father of the bride is typically expected to foot the bill. However, couples are increasingly taking on more of the financial burden themselves, using their own savings to celebrate the wedding they want. The groom is expected to pay for the marriage license and officiant fees, as well as his engagement and wedding rings and a gift. He should also buy boutonnieres and gifts for his groomsmen.
The bride is responsible for her own wardrobe for all pre-wedding events, as well as her wedding flowers and gifts for her attendees. She should also purchase a gift for her groom. When it comes to contributions from parents, it should be negotiated according to will and capacity. However, traditionally the bride's parents are expected to pay for most of the wedding expenses, while the groom's parents may contribute towards certain items such as rehearsal dinner or honeymoon costs.
The newlyweds typically pay approximately 48% of the wedding expenses, with their parents covering the rest (52%). It's important to remember that contributions should be negotiated according to will and capacity. If parents are able to help out financially, they should make a donation in an amount that they are comfortable with. Ultimately, couples should decide what works best for them when it comes to paying for their wedding.
