When it comes to wedding planning, one of the most important decisions is who pays for what. Traditionally, the bride's family is responsible for the majority of the wedding day expenses, including her wedding dress and accessories. The groom's family typically covers additional costs such as the rehearsal dinner and honeymoon. However, modern brides often choose to pay for their own dress and accessories, and couples may decide to split the costs of wedding rings.
When it comes to wedding attire, the bride's mother often helps pay for her daughter's dress and accessories. This includes shoes, jewelry, and a veil if desired. The groom must bear any costs associated with his suit. The cost of wedding rings is usually split between the families of the bride and groom, with each family paying for their respective rings.
The groom's family is also responsible for corsages and boutonnieres for immediate family members, as well as any costs associated with the groom's attendants if they have offered to help pay for them. They may also be responsible for the rehearsal dinner. If the groom is from another city or his parents live outside of the local newspaper distribution area, the bride's parents should check if they want the ad to appear in their hometown newspaper. When it comes to who pays for what at a wedding, there are no hard and fast rules. It is ultimately up to you and your loved ones to decide how best to divide up the costs.
However, it is important to remember that allowing your bridesmaids to choose their own dresses will ensure that they feel comfortable in what they're wearing and gives them more leeway when it comes to cost. When planning your wedding budget, consider asking your parents or future in-laws if they can contribute financially. This will help even out the balance between both families. Ultimately, it is up to you and your partner to decide who pays what in your wedding budget.